Finally an article from our "nation building press" that resonates in my heart:
It Changed My Life: How Leslie Kee went from living in rental flat to earning $40k daily as top photographer
The "ugly" side of our "financial freedom" (formerly aka I want to be a millionaire) community is the frequent obsession with money.
Crass. Banal. Bourgeois.
Especially when I read those "financial advice" to youths who have asked the "wrong" question about life.
Of course there is bias in highlighting this article.
We tend to identify with others with similar backgrounds and experiences.
Compared to Leslie's childhood, mine would be liken to be born with a silver spoon!
Talk about playing the cards you were dealt well...
If you were in his shoes, would you have just rolled-over and gave up?
Many did.
Drugs, gangs, crime.
There's some take-aways that I would like to share with youths who have gotten the "wrong answers".
Remember, if the answers did not came from within you, they are usually platitudes parrot by drones and mules. Full of sound and fury, signifying nothing...
1. We got to pay our dues
Michael Leong - founder of ShareInvestor.com also washed dishes while taking his medical classes in Northern Ireland.
No, I don't mean literally you have to wash dishes... I didn't either!
But I too had to put in my fair share of blood, sweat, and toil just to be able to to afford the learning of my craft.
This is before the 10,000 hours needed to master our craft.
Huh?
Yes. Don't huh me!
Unless of course you were born with a golden spoon. Grades lousy but parents can afford to send you overseas to get a degree with little academic respect... But you're a "graduate" still mah!
2. Success is what we have to sacrifice to achieve it
If you can't spot it, don't worry.
In time you will. Especially when it comes to relationships.
3. Life is a series of decision points
If you ask anyone who have lived life a little long than you, you'll often find them regretting more on the decisions they did not make over the ones they have made.
Would you make that move to New York, if given the chance?
Would you suffer for your craft even if it costs you your freedom?
Of course "New York" and "personal freedom" are metaphors again.
Tip: If no one asks or headhunts you in your industry, I think you know the reasons why... Its either you are very mediocre, or super brilliant but clueless on "personal marketing"!
4. A scholar in every profession
Trust in our 5,000 years of collective Chinese wisdom: 行行出状元!
There's another Chinese wisdom that says women afraid to marry the wrong man; man afraid to enter the wrong profession.
If you decide to choose Money, I can understand.
Its easier to aspire to be a "prostitue". Who wants to toil for our craft?
I understand. I'm a man-whore myself.