Limited vocabulary.
And lack of situational awareness.
What do I mean?
The body language, the tone the words were spoken, the context in which it was spoken; etc.
Yup, the same words can mean one thing today and meant something totally different tomorrow!!!
Low EQ women will scream and shout at men for failing to understand them. As if shouting and screaming will help make things better...
High EQ women will hug their men and give them a kiss on the forehead. And call their girlfriends out for tea to bitch about how dense their men are!
LOL!
Understand too much and knowing the risks and staying away?
ReplyDeleteSame like investing?
DeleteCW,
DeleteMy hedge in Simsci got stopped-out yesterday when STI pierced above 3180 or 351 for Simsci :(
Oh well...
The market is like woman. It will do what it wants to do.
And sure enough, STI today is now below 3180. If I do not have a stop, STI will probably play me by zooming up to 3200!
LOL!
Moral of story - I don't tell the markets what to do; I listen to the market and go with the flow.
And the market is telling me (after being bitch slapped) that it wants to go beyond 3200 :)
I'll be a good boy and stand aside!
Hi SMOL,
ReplyDeleteHaha, I like to see the other side too: Why women don't understand men, and show the same picture!
Women don't understand men because they overthink. Sometimes when men is just quiet, women like to ask what the men are thinking about. He says thinking about nothing. Nothing? Yes, nothing. How can you be thinking about nothing?!
But the truth is, men have the ability to compartmentalize and really think about nothing. And the words men spoke out holds true across all situations, independent of context and tone (well, most of the time).
LP,
DeleteYou have found the right person!
I can stare at the ceiling and space out... LOL!
Yup, when we replied we are not thinking about anything, our women will think we are not "opening up" to them, "Why don't you talk to me?"
With practice, we can make things up on the fly...
"Honey, I was just thinking how meaningless life would be without you in my life."
"Aw..."
Yes, the romantic is also a snake-oil. How else any women would want to have us?
Unless its the woman who is doing the seducing ;)
Hmm... SMoL,
ReplyDeleteHow to bridge the gap? Stop thinking and start loving. Stop talking and start feeling.
Lol
Sillyinvestor,
DeleteIf we care enough, we would make the effort to:
First seek to understand; then to be understood ;)
Do quarrels really happen because to miscom? Well, it's possible when they start living together and start to get use to each other in my initimate ways, but after a while, the miscoms, quarrels are passing clouds, come and go...
ReplyDeleteThey real problem is when love fades and no more hueling
Normal. Teeth bite lips and bite tongue too and then get ulcers
Deletewat happen when snake-oil man and sanke-oil woman got married?
DeleteCW,
DeleteSnake-oil man tells woman, "Honey, you are my one and only."
Snake-oil woman tells man, "Lao Gong, you were wonderful tonight!"
Sillyinvestor,
DeleteWhen the loving feeling is gone, you don't even want to quarrel...
You see each other as "transparent".
Smol,
DeleteU are right, that's why I say "fade" lol
Hi SMOL,
ReplyDeleteAfter experiencing failure, low EQ men will head over to the Manosphere to learn from high EQ men.
High EQ men will laugh all the way to the bank from selling books and other resources to low EQ men.
The cycle repeats!
Unintelligent Nerd,
DeleteYour words between the lines are quite telling ;)
it's probably not so much how each one of them understand the other. It's more why there are man and woman? and their roles during creation.
ReplyDeleteAnd when man and woman are married, the problems also does not arise because of the difference in understanding.
The root problem is always the thinking of "what will i get out of the marriage or relationship" rather than what am i going to give/sacrifice to the other party.
This is the irony of today's world for why there are so many broken relationships.
Not the lack of understanding or the difference in opinions or even color differentiations, but more and more self-centered and self-indulged!
Rolf,
DeleteWoah... That's a bit too heavy for me ;)
Hi SmOL and Rolf,
ReplyDeleteLet me guess and try to explain in Maths
1+1=2 is wrong
1+1 = 1 is right
Lol
Sillyinvestor,
DeleteI'll stay clear of mathematical modelling when it comes to human behaviours.
Long Term Capital and Fukushima are reminders enough...
temperament,
ReplyDeleteEvidently, looking at the divorce rates amongst Christians, this ideal of "one flesh" is the exception...
But precisely not everyone and anyone can achieve it, its all the more precious and alluring ;)