Hands up anyone who have heard only of the this word "ikigai" or seen the diagram above, but have not read any actual literature on ikigai?
That didn't stop anyone from "pretending" to know everything there is about ikigai, does it?
Want to bet if you talk to a Japanese, or to be more precise, an Okinawan, they wouldn't express ikigai like the diagram above?
The diagram above is definitely something a Westerner would come up with! Everything with clear boundaries - with a name for each box you happen to belong to. A is for apple... B is for boy...
As for those of us who have not forgotten our Oriental roots and culture, you would know right away that's not how we Asians think! Philosophically speaking - we are very holistic and fuzzy, fuzzy; often clear as mud!
Its like trying to describe the taste of mango to someone who has never eaten one.
That's why I prefer to describe ikigai as, "The reason we get up in the morning."
Of the many descriptions of ikigai, I like this one the best!
Why?
Remember those days when we were young we can't wait for tomorrow to arrive? It could be Christmas, a school excursion, going on a date, a sporting event?
As we enter the workforce, ever had those days when we were eager to show up at work every morning? Or during the weekends, we can't wait for Monday to come sooner?
But when we drag waking up in the mornings, or suffer from Monday blues, we know something is not right in our lives...
Some numb themselves with alcohol or drugs.
Extreme cases, some decide to not to wake up ever...
On a side note, please seek medical help or talk to a person that matters if you find yourself avoiding waking up in the mornings persistently.
In case you didn't know, although ikigai as a concept has existed as part of Japan's culture, it was Meiko Kamiya who popularised ikigai to the general public in modern day Japan through her book, "On the meaning of life (ikigai)" in 1966.
Surprisingly, her book was never translated to English!?
Want to see the Japanese version of ikigai in picture?
Hey! I'm going off tangent again!
Some readers may exclaim in frustration...
Some are probably still waiting for the reasons why I'm poking both contradictory catchphrases below:
1. Follow your passion!
2. Follow your passion is the worst career advice!
Well, it's your life.
Who better to judge whether your life has meaning, or are you happy?
Plus whether the pursuit of more money would fill the holes-in-your-heart...
And you don't mind being a prostitute at all just as long the money is right!
Or is you life so shallow that you are easily manipulated influenced by some mere catchphrases uttered or written by people whom you don't know well at all?